Whats important in a relationship?

[Michelle]

What has attracted you to your girlfriend, boyfriend, wife or husband? Was it the smile?, the butt?, the communication or something else?

I think communication is one of the most important things in a relationship. You gotta be able to talk and be on the same level.

[evilwill88]

Communication is a definate......

[dutchie]

I can almost see the halo round your head, my friend....:evil: ;)

[dutchie]

Michelle, in the title of your topic you asked
<blockquote><strong><em>Quote:</em></strong><hr>Whats important in a relationship?[/quote]
And in the text of the first post you ask<blockquote><strong><em>Quote:</em></strong><hr>What has attracted you to your girlfriend, boyfriend, wife or husband? Was it the smile?, the butt?, the communication or something else? [/quote]These are totally different questions.

When I first met my wife - I'm not ashamed to say - I was <em>attracted</em> by her gorgious long legs, wrapped up in black stockings, together with her eyes which were like swimming pools to me. Jeez, I'm getting all romantic here... But this is about sheer attraction, very animalesque behaviour....

Now for the question in the title: what's important in a relationship?
1. Honesty
2. Honesty
3. Honesty

The rest is dressing the thing up nicely, but not very important, such as:

1. compatibility of intellect and intelligence
2. compatibility of world views (reli and political)

And - very very last places: looks and ambition.

[VegasRonin]

38D-24-36 works very nicely for me. :p

[annabelly]

12 inches works for me!

[dutchie]

that's over 30 centimetres in metric... you MUST be joking...

[annabelly]

They breed em big in oz!

[dutchie]

with "em" surely you mean horses?!?

[annabelly]

Ohhh...bugger...hmm.

Ok Dutchie....I was just trying to out - sexist Vegas.

In actual fact 10 inches will do me fine! :rolleyes:

Do you think my "role model" Queen E" would approve!

[dutchie]

Ah, ok - nothing abnormal 'bout that, I guess....

VR just didn't get breastfeeded, that's all. All boys that didn't have that are attracted to female melons. Personally I prefer a handful....

About QE - Does she thinks that size counts then? Or does she think that Counts size? :p

[mickydoolittle]

who has time for those...especially when there is so much posting occuring here, that...ahh, nevermind, I need a drink.

-MD-

[dutchie]

..for those...what did you mean? The melons?

[JoePublicJagoan]

What's important in a relationship? Good communication and good sex. What else is there? Oh yeah...money is nice too.

[geedubyah]

When you're comfortable enough with each other that you can go driving at break-neck speeds on curvy mountain roads in a 4x4 truck that outhandles most high dollar sports cars..while high.

When you can lie in bed and know that other is restless and won't sleep because you haven't had time to have sex and get that orgasm b4 sleep--so you rub one out for her.

When you can meet for lunch and know that the only things you'll be eating are each other in the hotel down the street.

When you can listen to the other rant and rave about how badly you pissed them off with whatever you did, and laugh inside because she is so -%--%--%--%--%--%--%-ed funny when mad and yelling...

When you can sit in a bar together and drink until you're both too @#%$ faced to drive, so you both decide to sleep in the back of the truck after a rousing round of druken intense sex that causes the surrounding neighbors to call the cops and complain.

When you can know that the other is not going to -%--%--%--%-k around on you with your best friend and pretend nothing ever happened. And then break up with you because you are 'apparently not fun anymore' and move in with said best friend--now ex bestfriend.

When you can sing along with your favorite song(s) and not feel uncomfortable about singing in front of them--especially when they tell you that you sing beautifully.

Yeah...I...don't...know.
geedubyah :o

[annabelly]

and here was I thinking this was a nice clean forum.....

Miiiiiiiiiikkkkkkeeee!!! <img src=http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/embarassed.gif ALT=":o"> 0] <img src=http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/embarassed.gif ALT=":o">

[mickydoolittle]

so there.
-MD-

[Smersh999]

<blockquote><strong><em>Quote:</em></strong><hr>and here was I thinking this was a nice clean forum.....[/quote]

You're right Annabelly - this <em>was</em> a nice clean forum, until you and Vegas came along ... :rolleyes:

[annabelly]

You guys had it all wrong about me.

I was talking about model airplanes for christsake.

Guys...sheesh...minds in gutters always!

[dutchie]

A dirty mind is a joy forever...

Women are no better than men in that respect...:cool:

[evilwill88]

I dunno...

That may be the case. But guys tend to speak their mind on that topic more often than girls..... :lol:

[dutchie]

Yeah, I was talking about the mind, dude. Take it from me, girls are ANIMALS - they just act like madonna's.... (and I don't mean that italian singer with the funny bra...)

[Smersh999]

<blockquote><strong><em>Quote:</em></strong><hr>I was talking about model airplanes for christsake.[/quote]

Well you were going off topic then weren't you. I seem to remember you chastising me for that once, Annabelly! ;)

[annabelly]

Smersh...it is extremely important to me in a relationship, that a man has a good sized model airplane!

Hmm - wonder why I can't get a date these days? :mad:

[VegasRonin]

<blockquote><strong><em>Quote:</em></strong><hr>VR just didn't get breastfeeded, that's all. All boys that didn't have that are attracted to female melons. Personally I prefer a handful....[/quote]
Hey Dutchie, it appears you're getting to know me as well. You hit that right on the head. My mother tells me that as an infant, if I was crying, I would stop if a busty woman picked me up. <em>Still works today!</em> :p

[dutchie]

:rolleyes: See? I told you!! :rolleyes:

(when I was done with my mom, there were just two flat leathery pouches left.. Never got over that sight again...)

[annabelly]

Now Vegas and Dutchie.......which one of you wants to be called "Babe"

Glad I'm not having anything resembling this conversation about mens "bits"....
I'd be crucified.....just the mention of 12 inches sent at least one certain male poster off into a hissy fit.

Think I will stick to my model airplane fantasies and delusions.....:)

[dutchie]

Girl, the nastiest sight for a woman to behold is a naked dude wearing just his socks. Or when you may believe our (lady) singer, there's nothing more hideous that seeing a naked guy bend over and seeing the back of his thingy. (Must admit it sounds bad...)

What you call sexist pig stuff is in fact men of good taste contemplating and admiring all the beauty of the female... Be proud of us!

[VegasRonin]

Here here Dutchie!

[annabelly]

You wouldn't be speaking from the perspective of say.....only 50% of the populace would you?

[dutchie]

Like I said: this is firsthand info. From women!

[Mensa Genius]

<blockquote><strong><em>Quote:</em></strong><hr>38D-24-36 works very nicely for me. [/quote]

Vegas I think this deserves to be posted twice :p

Had to make a quick edit, I forgot to say some fine booty would be an added bonus :evil:

[mickeydoolittle]

who has time for those...especially when there is so much posting occuring here, that...ahh, nevermind, I need a drink...if anyone does have time, I'll be your -%--%--%--%--%-.

-MD-

[Michelle]

Gee everyone. :D Thanks a bunch for your replies. I now understand that the majority, 8o , or should I say all of you think that chest size is the most important thing in a relationship. Wow, I can see all the seperated women out there queing up for breast implants.

[VegasRonin]

I'm a victim of my surroundings, living in Las Vegas and all. :cool:

[dutchie]

Originally posted by Michelle
Gee everyone. :D Thanks a bunch for your replies. I now understand that the majority, or should I say all of you think that chest size is the most important thing in a relationship. Wow, I can see all the seperated women out there queing up for breast implants.

Well Michelle, guess you missed my posts then. Makes ME think why the girls don't post their ideas on the subject here, then. i don't know exactly what you fancy, but glasses don't seem to be among them...:mad:

[VegasRonin]

I dig outgoing women, and a woman that is secure with herself. I'm not crazy about needy or clingy women. I hate the type that call you ten times a day. I knew this woman that used to go kayaking with me sometimes. MMM MMM mmmm:D

[annabelly]

Hey ...kayaking....wow....now Vegas is getting deeeeep.
I think he may once have been "in lurve!"

By the way...now I even have an icon problem...there aren't enough...Where is ROFL for example...and don't tell me its that silly ambiguous grinning face?

[VegasRonin]

Kayaking Picture. :D

[annabelly]

Hey Vegas....Is that you or the kayaking girl?

If its the kayaking girl, no wonder you have a problem with bosoms.
Your kayaking girlfriend has a moustache!

This is not generally a good sign for mammary development!

Having seen the photo of
your dearheart has certainly made me feel less sorry for myself!

Though...she probably would make a pretty nice looking bloke.....

[VegasRonin]

:D :p :D :p

[dutchie]

Hey Vegas....Is that you or the kayaking girl?

If its the kayaking girl, no wonder you have a problem with bosoms.
Your kayaking girlfriend has a moustache!

Do I detect some jealousy, hhmm Annabelly?!?

[VegasRonin]

Just checking something, Bloke just means guy right? My Euro slang isn't all that. :smokin:

[annabelly]

"Do I detect some jealousy, hhmm Annabelly?!?"

Yes Dutchie, you saw right through me!
No matter how many times I shave, I just can't get that hair on my upperlip going.


And yes Vegas, bloke means guy, Ausslang though, not sure about Euroslang.

[ThunderStruck64]

If its the kayaking girl, no wonder you have a problem with bosoms.
Your kayaking girlfriend has a moustache!
[QUOTE]

Vegas, annabelly, stop it your making me laugh. :D

[mickydoolittle]

You missed the post from geedubyah.....that was not at all about titts.

[geedubyah]

She was beautiful.

She was exotic and filled with smiles. She made my heart glow every time I heard her speak. Each time I could gaze upon her beauty--I lost myself in her eyes. She was amazing.

We had fun together and I don't know where she is now, but I miss her very much and I think fondly of her often.

You must have missed my post about relationships, because I made no mention of breasts or breast related phrases.

PS Michelle did have beautiful full perky breasts. They were beautiful I tell you...beautiful....I miss them as well.

NOW I mentioned breasts.

So deal with it missy.

[dutchie]

omygawd, GWB messed around with a michelle....! Hurry people, phone the papers!!

(BTW Bloke is not only Aussieslang but Euroslang too... IMO Australian is completely Euroslang, BTW - yes, yes, shoot me... )

[mickydoolittle]

Boobies. What else is there? :vbroll:

[dutchie]

Boobies. What else is there? :vbroll:
.....eeeehhhhhhhh.........


have to get back to ya.....

[Defiant Noquisi]

12 inches works for me! My gawd woman! I would be crippled and never walk again! No bigger than 9-10 inches for me. LOL

[Defiant Noquisi]

Boobies. What else is there? :vbroll: Eyes and ass dear, eyes and ass. Eyes like Orlando Bloom, ass like.....uh, hmmm well there is ALOT of nice male ass out there!

[dutchie]

Orlando Bloom... What do girls see in that poof...

[Defiant Noquisi]

Orlando Bloom... What do girls see in that poof... He's tougher than he looks! Any dude that could fall three stories, break his back, not become crippled and then go on to take physically demanding roles in movies such as "Pirates of the Carribean" and the LOTR trilogy scores HUGE points in my book! And OMG but those EYES!!! Virtual drowning pools! He makes this old lady feel VERY young again! :Llol:

[Defiant Noquisi]

Oh my! I almost forgot! He's a sword fighter so that automatically gets top billing to me! SEXY!!!!!

[mickydoolittle]

Orlando Jones totally defeats Orlando Bloom.

Everytime. No contest.

[Hoodlum]

id say im quite comfortable with my girlfriend considering i can talk about the consistency of my bowel movements with her!

Its romance i tell you!!

[mickydoolittle]

great, then take your shit elsewhere until you learn some manners and/or etiquette.

idiot.

[Defiant Noquisi]

Orlando Jones totally defeats Orlando Bloom.

Everytime. No contest. Bite me Mickey! Jones does not sword fight although I did think he was cute in "Evolution". You'll see, just wait until "Troy" comes out!

[Defiant Noquisi]

id say im quite comfortable with my girlfriend considering i can talk about the consistency of my bowel movements with her!

Its romance i tell you!! :rolling: Well Im happy you have that comfortable of a relationship! LOL

[Hoodlum]

I love to love..

i can comforably pick my boogies in front of her. im so HAPPY :grin

[mickydoolittle]

id say im quite comfortable with my girlfriend considering i can talk about the consistency of my bowel movements with her!

Its romance i tell you!!


Ok mickey you juicey cadavers turd. You dont even know what your talking about..

I wasnt talking to your dumb ass because your like talking to a rabid christian nazi. Actually you are one. I bet the confederate hicks who you try to fit in with dont even like you. Your ass is not even worthy of a gay white supremicists cock. If your going to post and try to bash me when im adding to a conversation then just bust a nut and get it over with so your jacktoothed momma can lick up your curded ghonnorhea jizz!

wooooooo wooooooo


how about you watch my words blow your ghostly white ass back onto the shitter you crawled out off...

You're fuct. Permanently. heh heh

[Hoodlum]

Have you heard of making a new account, or are you such a reject that youve learned your place in society , to stay the **** outta public..

[mickydoolittle]

heh...how many IP addresses do you have access to?

Or, did you forget about that in your attempt to rant and rave?

[Hoodlum]

More than your simple mind can comprehend, let us end this here...

I apoligize. I just enjoy flame wars...

[mickydoolittle]

oh...you're running away? You just got started. Why end it so quickly? Realize you used up all your rope in few short minutes?

Heh...amateur.

The term "2 minute man" comes to mind....how sad for your significant other.

[MetalMilitia]

Chill ........... It's a sad day when I have to close a thread and take action becuase two people turn it into a childish name calling festival.

This is ridiculous. I feel bad for the rest of the AO community that actually USES these threads for stimulating debate / conversation.

-MM- :crs: