Who's responsible for the horrendous divorce rate in America?

[Doomer]

You'd be hard pressed to find a man who isn't familiar with and believes the following statement to be true.

"American women are great for sport fucking but make lousy wives and mothers."

Given that the majority of divorces are filed by women, It's hard to argue in favor of women when it comes to laying blame on the destruction of the family and the decline in morals. It seems that the American whore is out of the closet and in full view. We are becoming a nation of gangs of lost children. It seems like American woman has abandoned her role as mother in favor of the more glamorous role of public whore. Men don't mind but what's this doing to the future of America?

[Cartesiantheater]

I think that's a crock. You can't just over simplify it by saying it's "the American Whore's fault."

It probably has to do with SEVERAL factors including longer lifespans, the religious right losing its control over society, the "Consumer generation," all kinds of things...

I would list more, but I don't feel like thinking today...

[Cartesiantheater]

.oppressive ...abusive men..and control freaks.Cheating Rat bastards.. I hope his wife calls Tommy Grand.. That's why the divorce rate in america is high..
Maybe... or maybe his wife is an abusive, cheating, never-putting out, constantly nagging, dirty, brainless, impersonal, anti-social bitch...

Again, you guys are WAAAAY over-simplifying here. There is no ONE cause. That's way too, uh... simple... There's more to it than that... IMO...

[Perfectionist]

Personally, I think it is because the true sense of Marriage itself is slowly dying/changing ......

People get married cos they wanna funk each other .... then they realise they wanna funk someone else etc .....

Not quite the life-long commitment it used to be ...... :jamn:

[Cartesiantheater]

Personally, I think it is because the true sense of Marriage itself is slowly dying/changing ......

People get married cos they wanna funk each other .... then they realise they wanna funk someone else etc .....

Not quite the life-long commitment it used to be ...... :jamn:
Hahahahahaha! I would guess that with all the evangelical christians I know... It seems that sex is THE reason to get married... (you know, to avoiding "sinning" through masterbation and fornication...)

[Sammy56]

It seems that sex is THE reason to get married... (you know, to avoiding "sinning" through masterbation and fornication...) That actually does seem to hold some truth. Here, the average age for marriage is very young because most couples feel it is sinful to have sex before marriage, yet they want to have sex. So, they get married right out of high school. Of course, that causes all sorts of problems, many of which can lead to divorce.

But, like you said earlier, there are way to many factors for this to be given one cause. However, if women are at fault, so are men. You can't just blame it on one sex. That's how Christianity propagated the hatred of women when they blamed Eve for the fall of man.

[Cartesiantheater]

Maybe she did want to catch anything..

Ha! That's funny. But the fact remains that you can't just say that there's only one factor.


You can't just blame it on one sex. That's how Christianity propagated the hatred of women when they blamed Eve for the fall of man.
(the following is a useless tangent...)
I agree with this, with one exception. This "it's women's fault" thing goes back WAY before Christianity or Judaism. This idealogy was a direct result of the Agricultural revolution. Think about it... In hunter/gather societies, women had a very important role in survival, and ancient archeological findings reveal that women had a greater role in religion and politics of those societies(if you could say that they had politics). But because farming culture demanded physical labor, and men are more suited to that in general (please tell me no one disputes that obvious fact), men began to choke away the influence women had on society. If you'll note the gods of ancient pre-agricultural societies to the post-agricultural societies, you'll see that Female fertility gods had a much more prominent role in pre-ag societies; and Male deities took over during post-ag societies...

A total useless tangent... but we just went over this in World Civ, and it's just pouring out... sorry... (and the "who is called 56" thing is just me being bored, pretending that I'm some guy who lost something in the translation of your name... yes... insane...anyway, Carry on!)

[TheAvatar]

This is very simple, the cause of divorce is of course marriage. Being married is not something that you do and are done with. A marriage is a continual process that two people have to work at to enjoy it. It's rarely one's failure or the other, but a combination of things from the two. Two have to say I do, and two have to say I don't.

[Demonskates]

This is very simple, the cause of divorce is of course marriage. Being married is not something that you do and are done with. A marriage is a continual process that two people have to work at to enjoy it. It's rarely one's failure or the other, but a combination of things from the two. Two have to say I do, and two have to say I don't.
I agree with that,i also think eroding morals in general have contributed to it as well.
Sometimes finacial strains are to much.sometimes the stress of kids is too much.work,social responsibilitys,stress,lack of sleep.ect.ect.ect.
To many people now adays just give up too easily,a marrige or relationship takes tremendous work,acceptance and understanding to be succesful.Marrying too young seems to be one of the bigger causes.Stick a person with another person for 40 years,and you are bound to butt heads,get annoyed,scream and yell ect.
People vent on their S.O.'s enough and they get sick of it.Its alot of things.

[Sammy56]

I agree with this, with one exception. This "it's women's fault" thing goes back WAY before Christianity or Judaism. This idealogy was a direct result of the Agricultural revolution. Good point. I neglected to think of that. It did start long before, however I think Christianity was the main reason for it within the past few hundred years in Europe in America even if the idea did not originate from them.


(and the "who is called 56" thing is just me being bored, pretending that I'm some guy who lost something in the translation of your name... yes... insane...anyway, Carry on!)I am now confused and slightly scared! :D

[Doomer]

I've was raised thinking that marriage was for the sake of the children. If there are no children involved, sport fucking would be the norm like it is in some monkey societies. When you throw children into the mix, the picture changes completely. Without a sense of responsibility to them, society is doomed. Traditionally women have been seen as the main nurturers. This is reflected in the fact that most states will automatically give custody to the mother unless it can be proven in court that she's unfit. (I know this is changing but it's been the norm for a long long time).

Most men, after being ass raped in divorce court by a bitch who instigates the divorce for groundless or trivial reasons, will do 2 things.

1. They will greatly diminish their sense of responsibility towards their children both financially and spiritually because they feel the courts have relieved them of that responsibility. Of course, in those cases where both parties wanted the divorce, this can be different but when the woman wanted the divorce the man didn't. He'll develop a don't give a shit attitude or commit murder.

2. He'll tend to see women as nothing more than meat. I know several, like me, that would no more enter into a serious relationship than a feral dog. But they will fuck n chuck middle aged single women on the premise of LTR, love, whatever on a regular basis.

Women should really think about what it was that made a bastard a bastard before they judge. You most likely are pays for some other bitches doings and you don't even know it.

I will never consider any sort of honest relationship with a woman ever again. I am there worst nightmare. I use them then loose them. I will never have my heart torn out again because I'll trust or spiritually love a woman again. As far as I'm concerned, most are human garbage. Filthy whores who deserve to be treated like animal because they are animals.

This is especially true of Christian women. Those who know me know why I feel this way.

And BTW - My sex life is far better now than it ever was when I was married.

[Perfectionist]

Dang !! You have some issues dude !!

Personally I find women fall in to 2 categories - marriage material and girlfriend material ..... women worth marrying are only 1% of the western population though !!

The answer is simple - do as your doing with all them hoes !!

Then go abroad to find a wife when ya feel like starting a family :)

This way the hoes will eventually be bred out ...... and you will be doing some women from a poor country a great favour by bringing her over to the developed world !!

[uki]

You'd be hard pressed to find a man who isn't familiar with and believes the following statement to be true.

"American women are great for sport fucking but make lousy wives and mothers."

Given that the majority of divorces are filed by women, It's hard to argue in favor of women when it comes to laying blame on the destruction of the family and the decline in morals. It seems that the American whore is out of the closet and in full view. We are becoming a nation of gangs of lost children. It seems like American woman has abandoned her role as mother in favor of the more glamorous role of public whore. Men don't mind but what's this doing to the future of America?the future of america is sealed and fated... death, destruction, and misery for all those who have given their will to the world. destruction is coming. the women are whores and the men are pigs(this is a majority statement, those who understand will realize they are not on the same list). men pride themselves on all their toys and trucks, women pride themselves on all their glamour and glust... vainity. america is a nation of cookie-cutter cookie people.

[TheAvatar]

I've was raised thinking that marriage was for the sake of the children.

Dude, marriage isn't for the sake of the children. Marriage is for the sake of lifelong companionship, children are a benefit of it.

[Doomer]

Dude, marriage isn't for the sake of the children. Marriage is for the sake of lifelong companionship, children are a benefit of it.

As far as children go, I know now that this is reality. But the life long companionship I'm not so sure about. Maybe it happens but it sure as hell ain't common.

[Philosopher Foelhe]

As far as children go, I know now that this is reality. But the life long companionship I'm not so sure about. Maybe it happens but it sure as hell ain't common.

What are the stats on divorce now? Still around 50%? That still means just as many marriages flourish as fail. And some people are married and divorced several times, so that pushes the odds in the favor of someone who knows what they're doing and is willing to communicate. Things aren't that bad yet, I'd say.

[Assassin X]

Why is the divorce rate so high?

Easy. For one everyone likes screwing around with other people all the time regardless of if their with soemone else.

Two, women are so slutty and want things its disgusting. If they aren't busy screwing every guy they are wanting him to do things for her. Although some times men aren't any better, after all we supposedly think with our heads.... the other one.

Three, in a country where we do have freedom, well that freedom (which I could expand on) means we are screwed up and in the end get divorces.

Face it most people can't stand each other after 10 years, then 20, let alone 50!!!!! Thats for people with true love. Most people just marry because they "want" someone elses body or for stupid reason, not for love.

[Perfectionist]

It's funny though - in cultures where "arranged" marriages are still common - they hardly ever get divorced .....

Could this be because they have a strong "support mechanism" with all their relatives and extended family ...... where as we just have to go it alone with our fingers crossed ......

Also,I reckon more "traditional" families raise "old fashioned" non-hoe type daughters !!

[Doomer]

Maybe, just MAYBE It's the kind of women you choose.......If you choose a woman that is whorish.. she'll be a whore..If you choose a woman that lies.. welp she is gonna lie to you and the sixty other guys she is fucking...If God sees to it to put a nice girl in front of you and you still want to dwell on what the one bad apple did then that is your choice...It sounds to me like you are makeing the whole female collective pay for what one.. (albiet I think you had kids and that she was completely wrong if she left on any other account than ABUSE )(including spiritaul.. or mental) Maybe you need to learn forgive There was something in the marriage that was not working for her... because happy.. women who are in love with their spouses do not just up and leave on a whim... can you look back and see the signs that were there all along? Instead of making someother girl pay for what your ex wife did.. which really makes you no better than her really....why don't you figure out what"s in you that cannot get over it? Is it because you cannot believe that she left you? Cause you are so charming and patient and caring.. I think I remember in a post about you taking an 80 year old lady down to the bingo hall on your day off and pushing her around in her wheelchair and visiting with the other 80 year olds listening to them tell stories about their hip replacements.. Oh no that wasn't you? You were too busy seeing how many women you could fuck over because of some woman that left you 5 or 6 years ago...There are to sides to every story..and while we only know your side I bet your EX sings a different tune... YOu are a very angry and bitter man..



1.


There are no other options? Whoa! That is crazy.. and completly wrong maybe he will make himself be the most kind loving man he can be.................

Okay, this is worthy of a response.

Coming from the heart. I was totally devoted to my kids and would born the burden of Hell to see them off to a good start in life. No matter how bad things got, no matter how rotten my life got, my devotion and dedication to my kids was absolute.

My ex turned into a whacko religious fanatic who eats, breathes, drinks, lives and, above all, preaches her interpretation of the Bible. She passes judgment on every word she hears, on every thing she reads no matter who the perpetrator may be. She was particularly hard on me but hell, I learned to endure for the sake of the kids. I told her once in one of her really bad condemnation moods when she was preaching hell fire and damnation to me, that she only had to put up with me till the kids were grown and gone. I planned to walk out the door right behind the last one. This was a cosmic truth if there ever was one.

One day she came to me and told me that God told her to divorce me. She said i wasn't Christian enough for her. I laughed at first bu I quickly realized what this would do to our kids. The youngest was 7 at the time and I can tell you that she's the one who hurt the worst.

My ex turned out to be (no surprise to me) totally incompetent when it come to dealing with reality. she is a financial mess, her house is a filthy pig sty and our kids run all over her. They prefer to live with her because she makes no effort whatsoever to discipline them or give then a sense of direction in life. But she does read them the Bible and drags them off to church 7 nights a week.

So yes, I absolutely hate American Feminist Bitch whores. Especially those who are religious fanatics.

and yes, Christianity sucks. I condem all bible thumpers who feel they have a god given right to force their religion on others.

But I'm smart enough to realize that I can't get away with beating her to death with a baseball bat like I'd love to do. But I can seek out those who are most like her and fuck with their heads until they are vain a bitter cat herders. I'm perfecting this new found art and I'll admit, I'm getting pretty good at it.

If religion and American women aren't total bullshit, God will enlighten me (I'm not holding my breath). But until them, girls beware, There are more guys like me out there than you can imagine.

[borderline]

Hmmm. the fruits of the Me" generation made manifest......people change partners like used cars.

You can analyze it to death, but I think it comes down to the lack of guts to tough it out in the long haul, sorta goes hand in hand with todays no charactor life style.

[Cartesiantheater]

But I can seek out those who are most like her and fuck with their heads until they are vain a bitter cat herders. I'm perfecting this new found art and I'll admit, I'm getting pretty good at it.

Boy, this sounds remarkably similar to Vampirism...

but I understand what you're saying... I never got screwed that bad (with marriage and kids and all), but I did get screwed... and it definitely makes me want to do some screwing...

[Perfectionist]

It all boils down to the fact that people don't know how to raise children anymore ..... all the hoes of today were made that way cos their parents didn't teach them shit !!

My mother was always telling my sister to stay away from boys and concentrate on her studies (plus the fact that I would kick anybodies ass if they touched her! :bondage: ) has made her a sister/daughter anybody would be proud of :2thumbs: and no doubt will go on and make a great wife and mother when she get married :2thumbs:

Not only that but my mum was very proud of being a woman who for all intents and purposes is the "better half" of humanity !!

She would spend hours with us talking about how we should be kind, generous, humble, helpful etc etc especially with my sister who she would always teach to be "better than men" !!

[Freakshow]

Here's a page devoted to divorce rates. If I'm reading it right it doesn't look as bad as some people have said.

Divorce Rates Page (http://www.divorcereform.org/rates.html)

[Doomer]

I may have regressed a bit in my last post. The present hurt isn't nearly as bad as I made it out to be. But it was at one time.

Deep down inside, I'm hoping to one day meet a good girl who will convince me that I'm wrong about women. But the present truth is, all the women i've met since the divorce have reinforced my belief that American women are garbage and deserve to be treated that way. I have not met a single one that give me the slightest hint that there may be a sense of morals in her character. They all come acoss like filthy animals who fuck for money and other material gain. This is a game that can't be played with a sense of fairness or honor unless it's with a professional escort.

Someone once told me that if prostitution were legalized, we'd realize that all women, without exception, are whores. (A whore being a women who uses her body for material gain). I believed this was wrong and a sin for most of my life but have now changed my mind. I have come to realize that this is the true nature of women. Knowing this makes life easier and ensures that i'll never be trapped in a marriage again.

[Perfectionist]

Just wondering ..... before the divorce, how was your sex life ??

I remember reading something about whether - Happy couples have more sex OR More sex makes a Happy couple" ......

[Doomer]

Just wondering ..... before the divorce, how was your sex life ??

I remember reading something about whether - Happy couples have more sex OR More sex makes a Happy couple" ......

What sex life. I didn't want her and she didn't want me. But for the record, I never cheated on her while we were married. Not for her sake but for the kids.

btw: Cherisa, you're one smart cookie. :2thumbs:

[Perfectionist]

But did the sex stop before you started hating each other - or after ??

And if she was such a bitch ...... didn't you see any signs before you married her ??

[Doomer]

But did the sex stop before you started hating each other - or after ??

And if she was such a bitch ...... didn't you see any signs before you married her ??

Actually, the sex stopped after the last kid. She had all she wanted so that was that.

[mickydoolittle]

That seems fair and usually what people should do when you decide to bring lives into this world.. unless of course you are fighting every night with your spouse then it might be best to separate to save your kids from getting into a fucked up relationships and the stress of two people fighting..
Hence, the divorce. WTF Einstein?


BUT, maybe a better solution would've been marriage counseling..
HA! "Breaking Bonaduce"


If you simply couldn't make it work.. part friends put the kids well being ahead of yourself and suck it up...
This coming from you of all members. . .


I really hope she doesn't meet a guy that just wants to sport fuck her when she hits 15...and fucks her over and turns her into a cat lover...
Posting from experience?


You need to talk to someone about this.. and quick.. Not on a message board..in person prefferably..
What possible good could come of such a situtation: drunken ramblings...slurred threats of borderline violence...incoherent recollections of infidelity coupled with graphic depictions using finger puppets...exploring repressed memories of priests activities? Psshhaaww...Doomer is better off staying here releasing the pent-up aggression and dealing with the repressed realizations of possible latent homosexual tendencies. The board wins this way. . .what would we have to read if Doomer wasn't here entertaining us with all the above? Your posts? ha. No, really...ha.


You are hurt and angry..This doesn't just hurt your ex.. it hurts you and your children.. what I mean to have this level of anger really is detrimental to you too..It could possibly be hurting your kids the most.. Kids can sense these things especially at this level of hatred.
Bullshit. There is nothing wrong with anger. Disregard the above horseshit Doomer--this is typical of the feme-nazi movement trying to convince humanity (read as AMERICAn males) that anger is not a natural/normal process of dealing with issues. Way to go trying to emasculate men, cherisa. . .Kids learn to deal with their own issues by emulating their parents--monkey see, monkey do...it's the healthy process of learned anti-social rejection of admitted intrusive do-gooding ninnies.


Guys...just want to fuck over girls..
Again...posting from experience?


I don't think you really want to be this kind of Jerk.. I just think you don't know how to deal with all of the feelings of Hurt and betrayal and anger that you are having to deal with..
Oh really? How would you know what kind of jerk Doomer wants to be? How many different kinds of jerks do you think exist? What kind of jerk would you prefer Doomer behave as? Doomer is doing just fine dealing with the 'emotional baggage' by posting here at AO. You should be giving him better advice like: "Doomer, you should be trying to release your pent-up anxiety over your long repressed memories and posting detailed memoirs concerning your extramarital activities and finally come to terms regarding your latent homosexual tendencies." Get real! Do you think anyone reads your posts and doesn't have a similar reaction as represented by my above posted accuracy?

Jeebus . . . :alcoholic


There are nice women out there.. well you're not going to find them at bars..
Who are you to judge?


Girls going out to meet someone.. sleeping with who ever..
And…?


I have seen it with men too..My male friends complain complain complain why oh why can't I meet a nice girl who won't fuck my best friend..
Well, that’s what they get for introducing their fuck-buddy to their friends…duh.


I think I will go get shitfaced and see if I can't meet someone..
Maybe you should try and meet-up with Doomer…you could actually help him through the night.


Why are all the girls I meet crazy?
It’s due to chemicals more commonly known as hormones. It is equally applicable to males.


Oh and by the way you are not going to meet a nice girl at an escort service..or a nightclub..well maybe.. but it's a strech....
Again, who are you to judge? How do you know he won’t meet a nice girl at an escort service? I’m sure those ladies appreciate your condescending attitude towards their current profession.

Why are you so angry over women who enjoy sexual activity?


Having just come from a divorce..I know full well the motivations for a divorce..
Oh…so since you’ve been through A divorce, you know all the motivations and situations that result in filing for divorce?


Everynight when I would go to sleep.. a panic attack would wake me up..then I would be up 2-3 hours longer thinking I was dying .. after I moved out Not a single one!!!!!..
That would be due to the excessive and copious amounts of self-anesthetizing...aka alcohol.


Thank God I didn't a have a child cause I would still be there..
You don’t know that with any degree of certainty.


my ex knows all of the reasons I left.. I was 100% honest with him and I was worried there might be some baseball bat techniques use on me..
No one likes an exaggerator.


He certianly had that streak most of our marriage.. but there came a point in time that I was like well If he kills me then good It's got to be better than this..
Quitter.


There are shitbag people out there.. They don't care about anyone but themselves..
Hmmm…that could be you for leaving your husband...what about his feelings? What about what he was going through? Where were you when he needed you?


I had alot of remorse over the ending of my marriage and being the one who stood up and said enough is enough..
Contradicting yourself…again.


and being the one who leaves is certianly tougher than the one who gets left..
How would you know since you were the one who did the leaving?


I did him a favor..he is definately a changed man.. For the better...
Oh jesus…here it comes: Battered Spouse Syndrome…


It's that peice of paper.. The marriage licence.. anytime government tries to regulate love then there is a problem..
It wasn’t gov’t that started the institution of marriage. You need to go back and study history. Religion is responsible for regulating love and creating problems.


I consider myself a christian.. all that that means is that I am a follower of christ.It doesn't mean I am immmune from the humanness of life..
Wow…enlightening.


I think God's idea of marriage and the courts Idea of marriage are two different things.. The courts marry alot of people God doesn't even want to be together..
How do you know who god wants to be together?


So I hope you will reconsider your stance on fucking over every women you meet..It won't pay off for you in the long run.. what goes around comes around.
Doomer already experienced the part of the bargain regarding the going, now he’s interested in the coming. Seems fair to me...

[Sammy56]

There is nothing wrong with anger. Yes, you're right. Anger is a healthy emotion and it's dangerous to repress it. However, to much anger can be just as dangerous. While I'm not accusing Doomer of not being able to handle his emotions (for one thing, I don't know him well enough to make this assumption) talking to someone about what happened might help him deal with his anger. In my opinion, anger is something that needs to be dealt with in a way in which the person who is angry feels better but does not end up physically hurting the person they are angry at.

Doomer, I am really sorry for what you went through. I can totally understand why you do not see yourself in another serious relationship. But please realize that not all women, or even all American women, are like that. Not even close.

[Doomer]

Just for the record, mickey, no homo tendencies here. I eat pussy. :2thumbs:

[Perfectionist]

Holy Crap MickyDooLittle !! From all that it seems you are far more like MickyDoLots !!

Dude, if someone has good intentions and is trying to help ..... it's pretty nasty to crap all over them like that man !!

Go smoke a joint or get laid or something will ya !! Dang !! :52:

Anyway, I gotta say Doomer, what was it about this woman that made you so crazy about her in the first place ...... so that when y'all broke up you were hurt so much ?? :alcoholic

For a woman to get under my skin so deep she would have to look like a frikkin supermodel with the cutest ass, sexiest legs, biggest Babylons, softest skin, sweetest smile, finest hair, melodic voice, most beautiful eyes ..... and ..... have the intellect of a genius, the heart of Mother Teresa, the best sense of humour in the world, screw like a Pornstar, be the finest cook ever, have a Nobel Prize, an Olympic Gold Medal and be the heiress to a Billion Dollar fortune ...... :headbang:

I doubt she was all that dude !!

So just raise your expectations (maybe not as high as mine!) and get over this "average" bitch already !!

[Doomer]

Anyway, I gotta say Doomer, what was it about this woman that made you so crazy about her in the first place ...... so that when y'all broke up you were hurt so much ??

She trapped me when i was young and stupid. What I thought I was getting was far from what I got. This was apparent early on. The real question, the one I can't answer is - Why the hell did I stay with her as long as I did? It's obvious that she dumped me after she got what she wanted out of me.

Lesson learned the hard way but like i said they will be a few woman who will pay dearly for what she did. My story is not unusual at all. There are lots of men, who like me, learned the hard way and like someone on another forum said. "

There are plenty of beta man-lets out there willing to be fucked over by American Femanazis so we're really just pissing in wind by complaining. The right thing to do is become a monger and never look at a woman as something other than a piece of meat again. Then, and only then, will things be right with the world."

[Perfectionist]

Dude

How did she trap you ??

What exactly was it that she wanted out of you ??

If ya knew early on she was a bitch ...... are you really angry at yourself more than you are at her ??

[Doomer]

Dude

How did she trap you ??

What exactly was it that she wanted out of you ??

If ya knew early on she was a bitch ...... are you really angry at yourself more than you are at her ??

Have you ever been married?

This message is too fucking short ????????

[Perfectionist]

Have you ever been married?


Nope - that's why I'm so intrigued by what your saying dude !! :52:

[Doomer]

Nope - that's why I'm so intrigued by what your saying dude !! :52:

Do yourself a favor, don't go their. There are fates worst than living alone. Being stuck in a bad marriage is far worst. Don't fool yourself into thinking your love will be different, just think of all the countless people who thought they were heading to paradise and ended up in a concentration camp instead.

[Sammy56]

While I can understand the reasons for your advice Doomer, I disagree. Yes, I know that I'm only 17 and don't have any personal experience in the matter, but I don't think Perfectionist should just give up because there is a chance something will go wrong. Everything in life is a chance and if you don't take risks, you will never find what makes you truly happy. While some things can go wrong, there is also the chance that things will go right. How will you ever know unless you give it a shot?

[Assassin X]

Lawyers are the reason for divorce!!!!

Really though, I was thinking about it more and it seems to be mroe the women in this country then the men that want the divorce. Yeah, men are naturally horny (yeah its not an excuse) and we tend to cheat (I don't).

But women today marry young because they just want to marry and unlike years ago its not about live anymore, or at least they don't seem to know what "love" means. Nearly half of my friends that have gotten married are now divorced and out of those half almost half of them have kids! The women were mostly "high mantinence", or emoitional such as angry, bitchy, sad....etc or just weren't ready yet.

People need to start going back to the days of "real" love connecting people and not "Oh, I always liked you, lets get married". People confuse crushs, puppy love, "hes cute"...etc for love then get married and after awhile can't stand each other.

If all else fails and people want a divore they should at least get some help, especially if theres kids involved. I think kids today more about divorce then they do actually marriage!

[Doomer]

Obviously, I have given it a shot, Sammy56. I'm not saying you'll face the same situation I did, I'm just saying that given the facts, you're taking a helluva risk and you should be aware of this going in because you'll sure as hell be aware of it going out.

[Perfectionist]

I may be wrong ...... but it all depends on your choice of woman ..... Doomer I think you just have bad taste in the opposite sex !! .....

[Doomer]

I may be wrong ...... but it all depends on your choice of woman ..... Doomer I think you just have bad taste in the opposite sex !! .....

I'd like to think of it as bad luck. The woman I married was not the same woman that divorced me. This is pretty much par for the course for everyone in my situation, i believe.

[Protostar]

What happened to doomer happened to my Ex. His wife turned religous and he was left holding the bag. He was so damaged by that experience that our marriage COULDNT work. It's hard finding someone who is your "ideal" mate. She is
out there but you have to release the baggage doom. It bogs ya down and makes you a shrew! Screw that! I see couples all of the time who have happy marriages and it is because of mutual RESPECT. Yes I have had 20 somethings discuss how they were trying to get pregnant to trap a guy in my presence. I was mortified!
I would have never thought of doing that. But it's hard to pin point the liars.
Doom's in pain. Love will fix that ya know. But you won't get if from a hottie looking for paycheck. Just remember, the understated women are the ones you want because they know who they are and don't have to flaunt it like a ho.
But you won't give her a second look because her tits won't be in your face and that is what any red blooded man wants. Just remember if she's sticking them in your face, she's sticking them in everyones as well. Not a good choice for a
LIFE PARTNER. Next time you go-out, look around and see who's not flaunting it all.
<not the uglies>,the ones who sit at a table, not the bar for gods sakes.
You just might be suprised what you find in her. Cherisa, you have a good heart and mickey proved here what kind of man he is. He undoubtably has his head so far up his ass that he can't see this. Who would want that ass except for another one who thinks just like him! hahahahha

[Doomer]

In defense of Mickey, he makes good sense most of the time, lol.

I'm really not into big tits. They then to go with eveything else being big. My idea woman would a skinny one with a heart of gold. Looks or other atributes that are normally considered sexy don't really matter to me anymore. I'm more into what's in the heart. But having said this, let me also say, i'm not ready to be put out to pasture. There is still a healthy fire burning within and a woman who has ceased to be a woman is of no interest to me. Fuddy duddy stick-in-the-mud's can have theirs cats, they don't need me.

I know all to well how to handle material girls so they pose no threat to me. The opposite, however, isn't true. There is nothing more disgusting to me than a gold digger. It's a sad fact that the world is full of them today.

You're correct Protostar, love would fix me. Problem is, I have no idea where quality women are to be found. I know where the crackwhores, barsluts, and online damaged pyschos are, but quality women worthy of being loved still elude me.

[Perfectionist]

Try overseas !!

I've made my mind up 99% that when it comes time to get my ass married ..... I'm gettin my ass on a plane !!

Now lets see .... Thailand, Phillipines, Ukraine, Italy, Spain, India, China, Brazil ..... :D

[mickydoolittle]

Just for the record, mickey, no homo tendencies here. I eat pussy.
...munch away...just remember to be selective upon whom you perform the eating.


Dude, if someone has good intentions and is trying to help ..... it's pretty nasty to crap all over them like that man !!
You obviously are not aware of the methods used by that member. My response was conforming as well as acceptable.


Go smoke a joint or get laid or something will ya !! Dang !!
If you think the above was mean spirited, then you're much more sensitive than any of us here are aware. Obviously, my posts are much less caustic than they were two yrs ago.


For a woman to get under my skin so deep she would have to look like a frikkin supermodel with the cutest ass, sexiest legs, biggest Babylons, softest skin, sweetest smile, finest hair, melodic voice, most beautiful eyes ..... and ..... have the intellect of a genius, the heart of Mother Teresa, the best sense of humour in the world, screw like a Pornstar, be the finest cook ever, have a Nobel Prize, an Olympic Gold Medal and be the heiress to a Billion Dollar fortune ......
No matter how hot and attractive and sexy you think she is, someone somewhere is tired of her shit.


Just remember if she's sticking them in your face, she's sticking them in everyones as well. Not a good choice for a LIFE PARTNER.
It's quite clear Doomer is not looking for a life partner--hence the desire to enjoy overpriced hookers. And what's wrong with getting tits in the face? That's what you're paying her to do to you.


... and mickey proved here what kind of man he is. He undoubtably has his head so far up his ass that he can't see this. Who would want that ass except for another one who thinks just like him! hahahahha
Yes, I plan on ONLY breeding with intelligent females so as to overshadow the amount of idiots roaming my planet--as may be referenced by the above post. :2fu: :alcoholic :drool:

[mickydoolittle]

Good Luck with that.. If she was smart she wouldn't have anything to do with your foul ass..
she...? Your post references a single woman while my initial post to which you responded clearly notes multiple women, as in females. Apparently, your inability to sustain reading comprehension hasn't changed since you first started coming to the board.


and er.. small package.
Ahh...congratulations on stating stating the obvious. As can be researched here at this very site, I've not posted that my package was anything other than small. Again, I usually get gaggles of giggles when they see little -md-. I don't care if she gets off, so long as I get mine--I'm not paying her so she can get off. Jeebus, everyone who's anyone knows that small packages don't fullfill the needs of women. Hence, The (http://www.sybian.com/sybianindex.htm) Sybian (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sybian) was created...

[Doomer]

Holy shit, just got a great idea for a Sybian rental business. I'm gonna make a fortune off the local cat herders. Thanks Mickey. :2thumbs:

[Perfectionist]

Dude, make sure you wash those things in-between rentals !! :prin:

Besides, what does a Sybian do that a cheap vibrating dildo doesn't ?? :headbang:

[Doomer]

Besides, what does a Sybian do that a cheap vibrating dildo doesn't ?? :headbang:

Have room for a bill accepter?

[Jake99]

Its the system that causes the divorces. Stop allowing both parents with children to work and daycare the children and you get a much healthier family. And stop automatically giving the children to the female in cases of divorce and she will be more likely to not want to eat her man. Raising children is a commitment that should not be rewarded if it defaults for the safety and well being of the child. I consider divorce when at home children are involved to be child abuse and it should be considered as a crime against the children and society.

[Philosopher Foelhe]

And stop automatically giving the children to the female in cases of divorce and she will be more likely to not want to eat her man.

*snrk!*

I'm twelve. Anyway.


I consider divorce when at home children are involved to be child abuse and it should be considered as a crime against the children and society.

Am I the only person who doesn't understand the whole "divorce hurts the children!" thing? Seriously, my parents divorced when I was eight, and it never bothered me much. What exactly is it about divorce that's supposed to freak kids out? I've always wondered this, but no one's ever given me a decent answer.

[Philosopher Foelhe]

Ha! Nope, no offense taken whatsoever. :D

[Perfectionist]

PF ..... you are in a minority dude !! :2thumbs:

A quick Google will bring up mountains of data showing kids from divorced families do less well in school, are more likely to commit crime, are more likely to divorce when they get married etc etc etc ...... :bondage:

Of course its all just statistics ...... smoking is supposed to make you a zillion times more likely to die at the age of 25 with Lung Cancer ..... but plenty of smokers live long and healthy lives ...... :jamn:

[Doomer]

*snrk!*

I'm twelve. Anyway.



Am I the only person who doesn't understand the whole "divorce hurts the children!" thing? Seriously, my parents divorced when I was eight, and it never bothered me much. What exactly is it about divorce that's supposed to freak kids out? I've always wondered this, but no one's ever given me a decent answer.

Maybe you just don't see it. If you're really 12, this explaines it.

[Cartesiantheater]

I also came from a divorced family... and kicked ass at every standardized test I've ever taken...

Divorce does not cause stupid children... genes and limited interaction with parents at an early age does...

Further, those tests that show that divorce correlates with poor performance in school and the like... they neglect to mention other pertinent issues... Could it be that divorce, in some cases, is simply a SYMTOM of another problem? Like, say, a family that hardly talks to each other? The reason I say that is because it has been shown that children who interact with their parents more when they are in the language development stage tend to be more intelligent. So maybe these kids that do poor in school are doing bad because they are truly stupid, due to their parents not talking to them when they were BABIES... and maybe this "non-talking" trait eventually caused the divorce...

Rather than divorce causing kids to be "below average..."

Anyway...

[Perfectionist]

Dude ..... I wasn't suggesting that Divorce makes kids stupid !!

However, I would stick my neck out and say the Divorced parents are stupid ..... because they were they dumb enough to marry each other !! :D

[Doomer]

Dude ..... I wasn't suggesting that Divorce makes kids stupid !!

However, I would stick my neck out and say the Divorced parents are stupid ..... because they were they dumb enough to marry each other !! :D

Hard to argue against this.

This message is to short so I added this to make it longer. Anybody else think it's stupid that a message has to have a minimum length? I have never encountered this at any other forum. Oh well, maybe I'll just save this little rant and paste it into my message every time it tells me it's too short.

[Cartesiantheater]

Dude ..... I wasn't suggesting that Divorce makes kids stupid !!

However, I would stick my neck out and say the Divorced parents are stupid ..... because they were they dumb enough to marry each other !! :D
Yeah, that's hard to argue against... but then again, people do change...

I think the best thing to do is to just do away with the entire institution of marriage, and all the psychological baggage that goes with it...this would completely solve the divorce rate, the gay marriage debate, wedding costs, and so much more...

[Perfectionist]

Nah, getting rid of marriage would cause more problems than it would solve ..... women are already big enough hoes as it is ..... imagine the sexual chaos that would ensue if everybody went around funking anybody they felt like (not that it doesn't happen already!) ..... at least marriage "tries" to keep a certain limit on shit like that .....

[Philosopher Foelhe]

Maybe you just don't see it. If you're really 12, this explaines it.

I was making a joke about my lack of maturity causing me to snicker at something childish. Did you completely miss my point, or this is just an insanely pathetic insult?

[uki]

Anybody else think it's stupid that a message has to have a minimum length? I have never encountered this at any other forum. it's kinda like tetris; make the concept block fit into a message that is not too short... atleast in this forum responses have to be thought out just a little bit more.